Love the road warrior

Quote one of the chapters in this book
Lunge Own Pain

property nggendhong .. lali ..
have a sense of negligence
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Salman Al-Farisi time already married. Anshar a woman who dikenalnya as women mukminah again shalihah also taking place in his heart. Of course, not as lovers. But as an option and that it is appropriate pilahan. Options according to sense. Pilahan and the feelings of the fine, also a holy ruh.
But anyway, it feels strange here. Medina is not a place of birth. Medina is not the place growing up. Medina has a traditional sense of the language, and the various dikenalnya not. He was thinking, applying for a girl of indigenous affairs is to be a remarkable for a newcomer. There must be a man familiar with the tradition to speak for it in Medina khithbah. So disampaikannyalah gelegak that to heart shahabat Anshar with the dipersaudarakan, Abud Darda '.
"Subhanallaah .. wal hamdulillaah .. ", cheerful Abud Darda 'heard. They were smiling and happy to embrace. So it is just after preparation, beriringanlah second shahabat it toward a house across the center of Medina. The home of a woman who shalihah again bertaqwa.
"I was Abud Darda ', and this is my brother Salman a Persian. He has the honor of Islam and he also has the honor of Islam and charity jihadnya. He has a major position in Shallallaahu the Messenger of Allah 'Alaihi wa Sallam, until he was called-up to the temple as its expert. My brother came to represent I apply this to your daughter dipersuntingnya. "Fluent Abud Darda 'talk in the idiom of Banu Najjar the most pure.
"It is honor for us," said the host, "Receiving both of you, shahabat the noble Prophet. And is this honor for the family bermenantukan a major shahabat Prophet. Akan's rights, but I submit this fully on our daughter. "Host signal to the hijab in the back waiting for the daughter with all the heart beat.
"We're sorry frankness on this," said the soft voice. In fact the mother of talk represents puterinya. "But because both of you who came, with the hope Ridha Allah, I said that our daughter refused Salman proposal. However, if the Abud Darda 'and then also have the same issues, so our daughter has prepared answers mengiyakan. "
It is clear already. A surprising frankness, ironic, and beautiful. The daughter more interested in the introduction of pelamarnya! That's surprising and ironic. But I also said one reason for the beautiful; reaction Salman. Imagine a feeling, where love and brotherhood in the fight tempestuous heart. Imagine the shame the upset of the same shape and meet the wave of awareness, that he really do not have any rights over the person who dicintainya. Let's hear him talk.
"Allahu Akbar!", Salman exclamation, "All the dowry and living kupersiapkan I will submit on Abud Darda ', and I will witness your marriage!"
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Love should not have. Sejatinya and we really never have anything in life. Salman teaches us to reach higher awareness of the feelings in the middle of the complex berkecamuk; ashamed, disappointed, sad, feel-one choose not to compere the 'feel-dikhianati', felt in places that are mistaken, in the wrong country, and so on. This is not easy. And often feel that we have people who we love, let's study on Salman. About an awareness that sometimes we have to munculkan in a situation that is not easy.
Lunge sense have sometimes very intoxicating ..
Pain has often brought negligence. Javanese said, "Milik nggendhong numb." So be a man who is a slave in fact learn to enjoy things that do not belong to us, while keeping the awareness that we only loan. This is the difficulty. Not as a craftsman is only parking dititipi, we were given by God's provision for mengayakan value to karuniaNya. So have the feeling sometimes be difficult ditepis ..

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